091 | The New Covenant Gospel: A Conversation With Matt McMillen

Welcome to episode 91 of The Grace Cafe Podcast. This episode is an energized conversation with Matt McMillen about the New Covenant and our identity in Jesus. God’s opinion of us is the first thing that gets obscured by organized religion. Here’s a sample of where our conversation took us:

  • The New Covenant and the gospel.
  • Dealing with bitterness and anger.
  • Growing in grace, maturing, and change.
  • Mixing the Old and New Covenants.
  • Setting boundaries.
  • The Christian’s identity.
  • Theology, spiritual gifts, religious hierarchy and the simplicity of the gospel.
  • Top-down authority in religious systems.
  • When did the New Covenant begin?
  • We’ve died to the law.
  • Life under law and life in the Spirit.
  • We’ve died to sin and we can be ourselves.
  • Grace is our life, not an add-on.
  • Rest
  • Social media.
  • Religion Free Movement.

Matt has authored several books with more on the way. Yes, we talked about those too. You’ll find Matt on-line at:

Matt McMillen Ministries

Grab your favorite beverage, get comfortable and join the conversation. 


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088 | Am I Obedient Enough?

Welcome to episode 88 of The Grace Cafe Podcast. In this episode, we catch you up on some of the things that have been going on with us personally, eventually landing on the topic of obedience. But along the way we talk about Christmas, Mike’s skin cancer diagnosis (not the bad kind thankfully) and his experience under the doctor’s knife, the future of this podcast, other podcasts we enjoy and recommend, and our gratitude to you for allowing us to be a part of your lives and for listening to our show.

Links to other sites/podcasts we recommend in this episode:

We’ll be back in 2020!


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083 | Fear and Doubt

Welcome to episode 83 of The Grace Cafe Podcast. Fear and doubt. These are two emotions we can all relate to and we all experience to varying levels and at different times. In performance-based, top-down religious environments, fear and doubt are common byproducts because the spotlight is on our own failed performance. At the same time, fear and doubt are not allowed to be expressed in that environment because they’re counterproductive to it. In performance-based Christianity, fear and doubt require us to wear masks and pretend we’re something we’re not, increasing our level of fear and doubt. The goal is to clean it up and get back to pretending. 

“And have mercy on those who doubt.” Jude vs. 6

-Enjoy!


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080 | Take Five: Is Dying Daily a Spiritual Discipline?

Welcome to episode 80 of The Grace Cafe Podcast. In this edition of Take Five, let’s talk about what is often referred to as spiritual disciplines. Specifically, the assumed discipline of dying daily. Paul told the Corinthians he died daily. I believe we have incorrectly inserted ourselves into that passage in an attempt to make dying daily a spiritual discipline that we’re to be actively doing. But is that what Paul had in mind? Let’s talk about it.


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077 | And Then There Was Jesus

Welcome to episode 77 of The Grace Cafe Podcast. This episode is a recent conversation we had with Pooja Chilukuri. Pooja was born and raised in India and now resides in the U.S. She reached out to us several weeks ago and told us a little bit of her story and pointed us to her book, And Then There Was Jesus, which chronicles her journey out of Hinduism, into Christianity, and then to Jesus. And Then There Was Jesus is divided into 3 parts that help the reader know in advance where the story is going:

  1. There was Hinduism
  2. There Was Christianity
  3. And Then There Was Jesus

This conversation with Pooja is one of our favorites! As worded on her website, it’s her journey from India to the USA, from Hinduism to Christianity, her struggles with both religions, and a subsequent chance encounter with Jesus. She talks openly and honestly about her experiences in Hinduism and performance-based Christianity and how religious systems prevent us from knowing what God is really like. In the book’s introduction, she writes:

“If you believe that God is displeased with you at the slightest deviation from what your church or pastor preaches, and you have never been consumed by the overwhelming love of God, this book is for you.”

Our conversation with Pooja merely scratches the surface of the full story outlined in her book. Here are some helpful links to her book and for getting in touch with Pooja:

And Then There Was Jesus – on Amazon

And Then There Was Jesus – on Facebook

Pooja’s Website

-Enjoy!

073 | When Personal Preferences Become Law

Welcome to episode 73 of The Grace Cafe Podcast. Let’s talk about what happens when our personal preferences become hard and fast rules that we impose on others. Paul said that he wanted to know nothing among others except Jesus Christ and him crucified. But we get caught up in side issues like legalism, tribal doctrine, and religious tradition that take us away from what really matters and close down any chance for meaningful and honest conversation. Sometimes the freedom we have in Christ scares those who aren’t experiencing it to the degree that we are and as a result, we get labeled or categorized with various names and we’re considered dangerous or rogue.

We talk about these things and more in this episode as we share with you a couple of personal stories that reinforce our ability to forget our identity in Jesus and forget how free he has made us. We also reference and recommend this music video by Jason Gray – Remind Me Who I Am:


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